I don't understand why people get married if they're not serious about the commitment they're making. If your still going to see other people, sleep with other people, basically act like your still single except be legally married, why get married? Do people just not care about the commitment they're making before God, or their person of higher being? I take marriage seriously, I take the vows that people make seriously. Now I'm not married but I hope to be one day, and I hope/pray that my husband feels the same way about marriage that I do. Actually scratch that, my husband will share the same ideas about marriage because I wouldn't marry him otherwise.
Don't get me wrong I know people marry out of convenience, for stability, because they need health insurance, hell even love. But if your not serious about spending your life with that person what's the point of getting married? Ok so your serious at that point in your time, things change and now you want a divorce. Ok I get that, kinda sorta. However that's not what I'm talking about. I want to know why people who have every intention of living the single lifestyle while married get married? Save yourself some trouble and just stay single. The world will thank you, and so will all the women/men you meet. No one in their right mind wants to be involved with a married person. Yes I now we live in the age of the jumpoff/sidepiece but I'm convinced these people are crazy, and are not in their right mind.
These married folks who walk around with this "I'm single mentality" makes you question the value of marriage today.
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